Example: They’ll take you dinner for your birthday but they spend their entire time talking to their mom about their ex. You know… their crazy ex who did them wrong.
Or
They’ll take you on a nice vacation but they’ll make you do all the travel planning, handle the luggage, all the work while they lay there sleeping.
They’ll future fake you with their ideas.
They future fake you with how amazing Christmas will be but then they just pick a fight, take off and spend the day with some random person that you’ve never heard of.
Narcissist have a special talent of ruining this kinds of things.
What holiday did the narcissist ruin of yours?