Unbreakable and Irreplaceable: Rebuilding After the Trauma Bond​

October 24–26, 2025 | Dana Point, California

A 3-day live experience to let go of what almost broke you, remember who you are, and walk away with unshakable self-trust.

You’ve Left—Or You’re Ready To—But Something Still Pulls You Back

You know the relationship was toxic. Maybe you’ve left. Maybe you’re still in contact. Maybe you’re finally admitting it’s over… but it doesn’t feel over.

You second-guess yourself. You still miss the highs. You crave peace but don’t know how to feel safe.

This weekend is for the version of you who knows it’s time.

Not just to leave him behind—but to come back to yourself.

What You’ll Experience

Over three days, in a small, private group of no more than 25 women, you’ll:

  • Rebuild trust in your body, mind, and intuition after gaslighting
  • Learn how to calm your nervous system when trauma tries to pull you back in
  • Redefine love, safety, and boundaries on your own terms
  • Release the shame of staying, and the fear of being alone
  • Leave with a personal Code of Integrity—and the power to keep it

You’ll be guided by two trauma-informed professionals who’ve helped thousands of women rebuild:

Lisa Sonni, relationship coach and abuse recovery expert known for her raw honesty, direct coaching style, and deeply relatable survivor story who’s helped thousands of clients break their trauma bond and rebuild their lives.

Dr. Peter Salerno, licensed retired psychotherapist, trauma researcher, and expert in somatic therapy and EMDR, who’s helped clients move beyond trauma using the science of how healing really works.

Is This for You?

If you’re wondering:

“What if I’m still in contact with him?”

“What if I haven’t told anyone yet?”

“What if I’m still struggling to let go?”

The answer is: Yes. You belong here.

You don’t have to be fully out. You don’t have to be over it. You don’t have to be perfect.

This event meets you where you are—and helps you get where you’re meant to go.

What You’ll Leave With

Right now, you might feel…

Tired of doubting yourself

Triggered by silence, texts, or memories

Like you’ll never stop missing the highs

Afraid to trust someone new—or yourself

You’ll leave feeling…
"This is EXACTLY what I needed. It was well informed, on point, and truly one of a kind. I’ve never come across another program like this. Lisa & Dr. Peter have created such a safe, powerful space—and I’m so grateful to be part of it."
-J.S.
Student, online group coaching program with Lisa & Dr Peter
The Workshops

You’ll experience 9 powerful sessions designed to meet youwhere you are and move you toward who you’re becoming:

🧩 Detaching With Love — The Sacred Art of Letting Go

🧩 The Traits That Make a Dangerous Mate 

🧩 Who You Became (and Abandoned) Inside the Trauma Bond 

🧩 Reclaiming Self-Trust — Even After Gaslighting 

🧩 Your Nervous System Is Not Broken — It’s Trying to Protect You

🧩 What Real Boundaries Need — Self-Connection First

🧩 Clarifying Healthy Relationship Roles — Redefining What You’re Willing to Receive

🧩 Living By Your Word — Creating Your Personal Code of Integrity 

🧩 Becoming the Person Who Doesn’t Go Back 

You’ll also have two Q&A sessions and a private send-off lunch.

What the Schedule Looks Like

Friday, October 24
Check-in + Afternoon Workshops + Q&A

Saturday, October 25
Full day of workshops, integration time, meals, and group healing

Sunday, October 26
Final sessions + Lunch celebration + Book signing + Departures

You’ll have 90-minute sessions, regular breaks, and a full hour for lunch each day.

This event is trauma-informed. You will never be forced to share.
You will never be rushed. You’ll be supported at every step.

What’s Included

What’s Not Included

✖️ Dinners
✖️ Travel & accommodations
✖️Therapy or one-on-one sessions (this is an immersive group experience)

Where You’ll Stay

👉 The event takes place at a private venue in Dana Point, CA (exact location shared upon securing your spot, for your privacy & security)
👉 You’ll receive exclusive booking links for two nearby partner hotels offering preferred rates.

✈️ Nearest Airports to Dana Point, California

John Wayne Airport (SNA) – Santa Ana, CA
• Distance: ~25 miles
• Drive Time: Approximately 25–30 minutes
• Closest and most convenient option

Long Beach Airport (LGB) – Long Beach, CA
• Distance: ~44 miles
• Drive Time: Approximately 45–50 minutes
• Smaller airport with a relaxed atmosphere

Los Angeles International Airport (LAX) – Los Angeles, CA
• Distance: ~60 miles
• Drive Time: Approximately 1 to 1.5 hours (traffic dependent)
• Major international hub with the widest range of flights

San Diego International Airport (SAN) – San Diego, CA
• Distance: ~66 miles
• Drive Time: Approximately 1 hour
• Scenic coastal drive to Dana Point

Your Hosts

Lisa Sonni

🟩 Certified Relationship Coach  
🟩 Abuse Recovery Educator  
🟩 Trauma Bond Expert  

Lisa Sonni is a globally recognized abuse recovery coach who has helped thousands of women break free from toxic dynamics, rebuild their identity, and reclaim their voice. As a survivor of narcissistic abuse herself, Lisa combines lived experience with deep professional training in trauma recovery, relationship psychology, IFS, CBT, and DBT principles. She is the founder of Stronger Than Before Coaching, the creator of multiple recovery programs, and the author of several best-selling books on trauma bonds and emotional abuse.

With over 1 million followers across social platforms and features in USA Today, NBC, ABC and Impact, Lisa is known for her direct, compassionate style and her ability to speak the hard truths in a way that makes women feel seen, safe, and strong. If you’ve ever thought, “Why can’t I let go?”—Lisa’s work is the answer.

Dr. Peter Salerno

🟦 Retired Psychotherapist
🟦 Trauma Researcher 
🟦 Nervous System Expert

Dr. Peter Salerno is a retired psychotherapist with over two decades of experience specializing in trauma, attachment, and emotional regulation. He holds a doctorate in clinical psychology and has dedicated his career to helping clients heal from complex trauma using evidence-based and somatic modalities. Peter is trained in EMDR, Accelerated Resolution Therapy (ART), Polyvagal Theory, and parts-based healing, and is known for translating the neuroscience of trauma into powerful, practical healing experiences.

In addition to his private practice, Peter is a published researcher, keynote speaker, and respected trainer in the mental health field. He has worked with therapists, medical professionals, and trauma survivors alike—guiding them through nervous system repair and emotional integration with clarity, compassion, and grounded authority.

Pricing + Payment Info

Need a different payment structure?

Contact Lisa directly—we’ll do our best to make it work. Lisa(at)strongerthanbefore(dot)ca

Standard
*1 SPOT LEFT*

$2147 USD

*Price of pay in full

Want to attend? $2,147 when you pay in full or $2,647 on the installment plan with only $500 deposit to secure your spot!

VIP *SOLD OUT*

$2997 USD

*Price of pay in full

Get an EXTRA $1385 in value for just $850 more than the Standard ticket:

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Frequently Asked Questions

Yes. To ensure emotional safety and shared understanding, this event is exclusively for women.

Yes. Whether you’re out, almost out, or emotionally untangling—you are welcome here.

Absolutely. Many women attend solo. You’ll be surrounded by understanding, not strangers.

This course is for people who are in OR out of the abusive relationship already, but still feeling stuck in the cycle of a trauma bond.

No. Sharing is always optional. You’ll never be put on the spot or asked to disclose anything you’re not ready for.

All sales are final. However, if we sell out and are able to resell your spot, you’ll receive a refund minus a $300 administrative fee—after the event.

Email Lisa directly—she’s happy to help.

Ready to Rebuild?

✨You’re not broken.

✨You were conditioned to forget your worth.

✨This weekend is where you get it back.